Originally Posted by
Glimpsed
People naturally have preferences.
nature =/= good
Originally Posted by
Glimpsed
[...] you can't exactly get mad at a guy because he said, for example, he isn't attracted to Indian women. Even if he didn't openly say that, he would STILL not be attracted to Indian women.
this doesn't really change anything. i don't think you can ban an entire race from your dating/sex life without having prejudices. your dick will still work. to ban an entire race just seems bad to me.
Originally Posted by
Glimpsed
The logic that concludes this guy hates Indian people would be the same logic that states a guy who wants a healthy gf hates obese people.
yep
but i don't think it's the same as weight can (usually) be controlled
Originally Posted by
Glimpsed
And on the other side of the coin, if you happen to find one race really attractive, then why not express that openly? I'm not seeing any malice or hurtful comments towards Asian people in Melon's post, even if it is a bit exaggerated for comedic effect. If someone said that about my race, it would either make me laugh or give me a confidence boost.
no direct malicious comments, but i imagine that seeing some stranger post that and then realizing that you're his pipe dream (get it), reduced to an object of lust, is demoralizing. the key word is imagine, though. i'm not an asian woman.
Originally Posted by
Glimpsed
I find it far more problematic to be a person who puts others down for having harmless sexual preferences.
what if they don't think it is harmless, instead fighting for what they think is right?