Hi, once you receive someone's name via PM, you'll want to navigate to the ToriShop,(https://forum.toribash.com/tori_shop.php) then you will want to look on the left hand side of the screen and find "Transfer Items" and send an item from there. Please keep in mind that this tool will only send items from your deactivated inventory. So if you want to send something that you have in your activated inventory you will need to enter your activated inventory and deactivate the item you wish to send. If you have any further questions please feel free to ask here or DM me.