Erthtkv2 is the best competitive mod. 10tf is ideal for baiting and ghost manipulation. No dms are lucky, if you trace each replay, there is a reason why it occurs. Your tori is more fragile, which makes you consider more how you move, self-damage is pretty important to support that as well. The dojo serves as a way to save your dms, as they happen often.

Learn to use hold and relax properly, and if you do that then this mode becomes the most entertaining one to play, you'll be able to avoid most "lucky" dms