Originally Posted by
Hxcbbqimo
Hector: That underevaluating statement couldn't have been more shallow or untrue. 1st checkpoint in a racing game? That's exactly the type of thinking of someone who values physical pleasure more than deep emotional relationships.
If I had to guess: You practiced the moral philisophy I just stated. You found a girl who you loved. You then dated with her, didn't want to rush into anything physical, and felt on top of the world. And that's when it happened: she broke up with you. Maybe even cheated on you with someone else? People these days take a jab to the jaw and rather than keep their chin up and practice the same techniques to win a fight that you always have done: play it defensive and swagger off.
I am not saying that passion isn't an aspect of any relationship, but passion doesn't mean sex. Passion can be that overwhelming feeling after holding the warm hands of your lover. Passion can be that comfort you feel when your partner holds you by their side for protection, safety, warmth. Passion can be that one wonderful and majestic kiss after a sincere and romantic moment, staring deeply into their eyes and telling them how much you love them. Sure, there are the more physical moments. The times where you make out, maybe french kiss. Maybe she lets you cup a feel. Maybe her hand went a little more below the waist, or your hug grabbed a little farther south than her hip. But all of these great moments involving physical satisfaction aren't nearly as satisfying as the emotional moments.
I will give you an example. Say anything happens that's more physical than emotional. Say making out in the back of a movie theatre. Is that a great moment for us? Sure. But it's when she looks into my eyes deeply and tells me that I make her life soo much better and that she will always love me that feels my heart with more warmth and happiness than any sexual act.
And before anyways asks me: Yes. Sex is great. Sex is suppose to be the ultimate bond in the relationship between a man and a woman. Where they both emotionally and physically become one entity. But all physical moments are only as satisfying as the emotions that run through both of you. Forget physical and sexual progression. It's the heart that brings the most feelings.
Why so serious, my little romantic prince?
Actually I can't argue with a person who doesn't know what sex is. I don't set these things against each other, but all these sentiments with "looking into my eyes deeply" is a bullshit against situation when she looks into your male beast eyes during a wild sex. That's nature, man, and it's over us. You are talking about "High" feelings, but as 2d floor can't exist without 1st and 1st without basement feelings can't be sterling w/o "low" emotions that sex gives.
It's the heart that brings the most feelings.
Wanna bet? Let's imagine situation - there is a girl, not a virgin and w/o any psychic/sexual problems. And there are two fellows, one offers her "love to death and serenades under the balcony, but strictly without sex before marriage" and another offers her to "have a good time, date and by the way having a nice sex together" The choice would be obvious. What a pity, isn't it?
There's a classic 80's song, title says it all
Last edited by Hector; Feb 25, 2010 at 07:41 PM.