here's what it boils down to
if you want her to understand you better your going to have to tell her the things she needs to know and let her figure the rest out on her own
BUT it's not very fair of you to do that AND not pick up on her own hints
if you get a signal she is sending don't not do what she wants out of spite
its a terrible way to run a relationship, if you want to dump her do it
furthermore send one text, wait for response
if none comes she doesn't want to/can't
sending lots of texts makes you look clingy