Watch the 6th Day. They did quite well on the concept of cloning. Also Arnold Shwarzenegger, His Clone, and his stunt double is pretty good. Or watch Moon, you'll get an idea what it's like when a seclusive clone gets in contact with himself.

Also why would it be traumatising if you were dead and then cloned and brought back to life, knowing you are a clone of your original self that obviously died. If I were a clone I would be thinking well I'm still here.

Also being philosophical aksing Who am I? What am I? You would be a dumbass. Because you know what you are especially if all previous thought was transferred. The only thing they should be wondering is if their memories are the original not some copy from the original because if it werent the original memory and just the copy of the memory, things could go wrong.

I also don't think Reproducing as clones would be a good idea, I'm not sure why, but something is telling me that it isn't a good idea for down the road.