so i have to get everyone to leave my old server before i can make a new one.

Thats a bit lame, as when you return you cant kick them. you have to ask politely for them to leave "your" server so you can shut it down and make a new one to change from say TK to Wushu.

::keeping in mind i cant even see the server I made. I press c to create a new one and connect to my old. If it is still active, and it normally is.....

Pressing c is the only way i can get a game atm