thanks, so what i was about to say before thread got closed,

in can be implemented in element broken into 2 parts

1st part
name + forum status green (new pm on click)
name + forum status gray (new pm on click)

[ snake | O ]

where [ ] are borders of picture

2nd part
name + ingame status blue (join on click)
name + ingame status gray (nothing)

so in the end we get [ snake | O ] [ O ]

so the element will consist of 2 parts, not sure if can be done more simple