Or maybe people just don't know how to lose?
If you DM them you are noob
If you lift them out you are noob lifter
If you win by points you are a noob point holder
If you win with force dq you are noob gay grabber (usual)
But as I said, abd has many ways to win and it makes it competitive, countering shit in abd is much easier than countering push in rk(not talking about openers)