Try being in her place and think "would I hit this man?" although you say we're built stronger in some cases we aren't. take me for example, I'm scrawny and weak but just because I'm a male I automatically have a bias saying that I have to be strong or have to be capable of fighting, I'm not even kidding you when I say if a female was to hit me I'd probably get beaten down rather that hit someone. Since I try to avoid being hit I don't go hitting people. If she didn't want to get hit then you don't fucking punch a football player. Like you said moonshake it's like a sedan vs a monster truck but if you were the sedan (woman) then you wouldn't 'drive'/punch the fucking monster truck.