the whole thing is irl you can break the grabs to get free, while in toribash we still don't have such ability,

+flexibility, due the fact that toribash grabs are solid line connectors it's too static and cause alot of deformations.

i mean i would not be against any kind of grab as soon as we will have ball axis grabs + grab break threshold, so there would not be any nead in special mods