I let people backseat moderate in the discussion board. People develop a deeper understanding for the rules, the correct behaviour/conduct, and my job became much simpler because most things get sorted out by people involved. The only time I need to do something is when there is a disagreement what the rules are.
They make the same posts I'd make so there is no difference. vOv

Letting people use and practice their critical thinking abilities is the correct way to go about things imho.