Flaming and time friendly, of course there are some guidelines which can be based on both Ele and Zelda's morals (Based on verbal abuse).
To be honest some discussions get even better with flaming, it rarely goes out of hand (apart from with touchy subjects).

Maybe just a thread every now and then with this allowed, also one that can be just small posts. God damn I like to read through these threads but some of the users here write more in a single post than what is required in a single 3-page essay.