Discussions evolve. Discussing 'nigga' is allowed, it's a natural progression of the topic. I want to add, your point where you used me saying "I can take it, but I shouldn't have to" in response to you flaming me is invalid. As I've said, it's about intent. You were clearly intending to insult me. This discussion is about the usage of the word when no offense is intended.

That's why it's not right to make the argument you just made, the argument that by our logic you should be able to insult anyone willy nilly.