I'm in favor if both 1 & 2. I can see both of these opening up a lot of options with both mod making and grappling mods. The wrist are and important aspect of competition both in game and real life. Having a penalty such as this for being careless with your wrist ads more thought and late game depth to grappling matches. Also there are a lot of cool kicks and moves you can do in a grappling match when only one grab is active, you just don't see them often since players are usually trapped in a grab trade from the start of a match. The style of grappling mods has been stagnent for a long time now and adding in this wrist mechanic could help breath some new life into it.