Well yeah your right, lets start a topic then:
What kind of mods do you prefer? Fun (katana, pendulum jumper), competitive(aikido, aikido 2.0 also known as abd or tb's cancer okno) or cooperative (spar, pk)? and why ofc

In my opinion it really depends on with who you are playing, if its a friend and does not know how to play fun mods, if he is good and he is not a rusher/lifter competitive is gud as well and if he spends hours trying to do ok replays and if he has enough time some cooperative would be the best option.