Why? Why should the woman be forced to give birth?

If I have unprotected sex with a woman and I get an STD, would your response be "lol, you did this to yourself, you gotta live with it"? No. I think I'd be perfectly entitled to try to get rid of this unwanted chronic disease.

Same thing with children. Children are a chronic disease - They'll be with you for life. It's a big commitment to make. Sometimes women aren't ready for it and sometimes they just won't ever want it. Sometimes they don't wear condoms. There's no need to 'punish' these women with the chronic condition of motherhood.