Yeah when I was typing my thing up, I was thinking about that it's the woman that has to carry it, but I still feel that the man has a part of if their child get's to live or die. The only way I can see to fix the issue is the remove the baby from their womb and moving it to another womb (basically donating their body like a family member or a new girlfriend) without the baby dying, which right now is impossible if I recall correctly so medical science will need to evolve further for that.