I've never seen a op that hasn't attempted or just won't cancel bets when people draw. It's kinda become a must do rule in the community of Toribash (like how much people spam in the chat telling operators to cancel the bets). In my eyes its like a rule to follow within the community.

Giving the operators the option to determine whether someone loses their 20k or gains back the 20k its totally unfair.

^ that should be held responsible on the two people who are fighting. Not the operator(s) choice.