I do not argue against this, if a door is left open it's rather counter logical for humans to walk away. I am only human, and honestly at this point feel better knowing I can't see that top sub header updating every time someone writes about, potentially me. I'm sure Icky did this before he wrote his own formal reply and that is why I'm glad I can't see it, he was the most opposed and upset to my leaving. I don't blame him for this, in the scheme of things he was one of the few people I talked to truely. I'm glad I can't see i retouch.
I thank you, sadly it still sounds like you think something is missing, perhaps it is.