From all this, past staff and even present just stained the staff name, if it was a perfect system where everyone is treated like an actual person instead, this wouldn't be brought up every so often,

I do agree a lot with @notele, I couldn't put my thoughts into words but what was said seems pretty spot on, there's obviously power abuse, you can't even argue or having an opposing conversation to a staff member on a human level, they pull the "i'm in power so I'm ending this argument and if you don't comply you're being punished" route, it's perhaps the only reason I don't even try involving myself with most staff unless I really need the help, not to say I haven't met any cool staff. Their view goes, you can barely change it.

There really needs to be a change though, I don't have the answers on how, and of course a lot of players are also toxic in the toribash community so perhaps in the eyes of someone with staff privileges, you don't know how to really react to someone without thinking they may be toxic or a decent person, I will admit, staff aren't as toxic as before, but there's always a new crowd of players so being toxic either way is bad.