personality
realistically speaking, we're all going to die and our lives really don't mean anything if we're not enjoying it (in my opinion). Sure, A & I are neat, but I don't take them that seriously because attractiveness is subjective and intelligence comes in many different branches/forms.
if my s/o makes me happy, that's all i can ask for. we'll go through the struggles of life together until the life energy drains from our bodies and into the next.
or whatever dimension hell would be, i guess