sorry for weird invasion stuff, but,
I as one would find something to do, a hobby, to take my mind off all the problems, as reoccurring or random they may be. problems are just one of the many things life throws at you to keep yourself occupied. be happy, be who you want to be, I couldn't emphasise that any more. yet again, sorry for invade, but, I hope that may help you at least in the slightest.