my point is his knee fractured randomly. it wasnt from the leg lock and shouldnt be from both of your weight.
if it wasnt for that fracture he would have won, you were stuck in a lock before you had a point advantage. the only time you came close to catching up with him was when his knee fractured. not to mention with both his arms he would have been able to save even with the fractured knee.
so basically the win was a fluke and you got lucky with random fracs and an arm dm.
so this brings me on to my second point. if were really doing this to make aikido more like real life aikido, wouldnt playing an aikido mod with dm disabled a better choice unless you recently visited an aikido tournament where a dude lost his limbs. it just seems pointless to chaise down this for realism when youre just going to do it in an unrealistic mod setting.