yo,
how do i control my own anger problem? back then, i used to be this happy, energetic, friendly kid who likes to play games all the time and now i have no idea what the fuck happened. well i say i have no idea what happened but really i think it's because of that one toxic relationship i had like a year ago, and now i just gave up on love and do some random basic shit. every time when my friends said something wrong or not true at all, i just don't care and i literally called them out brutally. it's almost as if i'm trying to pick a fight with them about it. i'm also slowly losing my ability to speak politely and always speak in a sarcastic tone.
it's really a good thing that i can recognize my own issue now but the problem is on how to deal with it. i really want to become a better man so i can just be, happy. i have 2 younger sisters and their attitude is amazing and polite. i just don't want to influence them to have an attitude like mine, like i don't want to become the reason for their sudden attitude change. i want them to always stay clean and, safe.
so yeah, that's pretty much it. i have nothing else to say anymore.
how do i control my own anger problem? back then, i used to be this happy, energetic, friendly kid who likes to play games all the time and now i have no idea what the fuck happened. well i say i have no idea what happened but really i think it's because of that one toxic relationship i had like a year ago, and now i just gave up on love and do some random basic shit. every time when my friends said something wrong or not true at all, i just don't care and i literally called them out brutally. it's almost as if i'm trying to pick a fight with them about it. i'm also slowly losing my ability to speak politely and always speak in a sarcastic tone.
it's really a good thing that i can recognize my own issue now but the problem is on how to deal with it. i really want to become a better man so i can just be, happy. i have 2 younger sisters and their attitude is amazing and polite. i just don't want to influence them to have an attitude like mine, like i don't want to become the reason for their sudden attitude change. i want them to always stay clean and, safe.
so yeah, that's pretty much it. i have nothing else to say anymore.
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what do i do about a guy who asks for advice and then doesn't even answer my question on the previous page (page 13) (still open to advice) (would much prefer advice on the previous question and not this question) (i think i know the answer to this question)
Originally Posted by unbandemon
well solax there's this girl in my class and i wanna be her little pay pig any advice?
Talk to her about it, not me.
Originally Posted by Sneaky
Hey buddy, it's been a minute.
Its 2am on a Thursday night. What am I doing with my life?
Help appreciated. Love u
I'm a night owl too, nothing wrong with it; unless it's impacting things you have to do in the morning.
Originally Posted by Kirito
hey solax what do you think of bringing back a competitive global rank like the good ole days
Yea why not.
Originally Posted by aldraddd
yo,
how do i control my own anger problem? back then, i used to be this happy, energetic, friendly kid who likes to play games all the time and now i have no idea what the fuck happened. well i say i have no idea what happened but really i think it's because of that one toxic relationship i had like a year ago, and now i just gave up on love and do some random basic shit. every time when my friends said something wrong or not true at all, i just don't care and i literally called them out brutally. it's almost as if i'm trying to pick a fight with them about it. i'm also slowly losing my ability to speak politely and always speak in a sarcastic tone.
it's really a good thing that i can recognize my own issue now but the problem is on how to deal with it. i really want to become a better man so i can just be, happy. i have 2 younger sisters and their attitude is amazing and polite. i just don't want to influence them to have an attitude like mine, like i don't want to become the reason for their sudden attitude change. i want them to always stay clean and, safe.
so yeah, that's pretty much it. i have nothing else to say anymore.
Well for starters, it's good that you recognise that you have a problem. This reminds me a bit of myself following a relationship I had years ago; I didn't have anger issues but I came out of it feeling very jaded and cynical about everything. It may be something that just improves with time but until then just remember: we can't control what happens around us or what other people do or say, but we can control how we react to it. Some mindfulness exercises may be helpful here to help you get into the habit of being able to recognise these feelings when they come up, allowing you to pause, observe them, and let them go without reacting in a negative way.
Originally Posted by Solax
Talk to her about it, not me.
she's not a tori legend i don't trust her advice when it comes to these kinds of things