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Matrimony Requirements
For the experienced and mature guys out there, what do you think that it's necessary before getting married or something you wished you knew before getting married?I'm seriously thinking about tying the knots
bring her flowers and exotic rare pokemon cards

She has a collection of Pokémon cards , but i lied to her and she lives in Denmark... That´s really far man!


Originally Posted by Icky View Post
Prenups are one of the best ways to ensure that even if everything goes wrong, the things that went right are still with you and the stability that comes with those things is not in jeopardy.

Now that´s a great advice.
Last edited by yuki; Dec 27, 2022 at 02:43 PM.
Originally Posted by Nurse View Post
wait hold on have you met this woman in person denmark what is this thread

I have not met her in person. It's a thread for people to know about the needed requirements to get married.
I've obviously never been married before and there hasn't ever been a situation close to that, however, I dont feel like I'd get married too soon. I might be one of those people that take like 5+ years of dating to even think about marrying. And I would need to have absolute trust in her. I'd also recommend getting a prenup though.


Originally Posted by yuki View Post
I have not met her in person. It's a thread for people to know about the needed requirements to get married.

Apologies for derailing from the topic, however, I believe there are some words that you need to hear which you might not hear otherwise. You haven't met the person and it is definitely too soon to marry them. Another thing to keep in mind, you can't say for certain that everything they tell you is the truth. How long have you been talking to this person?
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Originally Posted by Ancient View Post
Apologies for derailing from the topic, however, I believe there are some words that you need to hear which you might not hear otherwise. You haven't met the person and it is definitely too soon to marry them. Another thing to keep in mind, you can't say for certain that everything they tell you is the truth. How long have you been talking to this person?

Don't worry, it's cool.
I haven't talked to them yet, it's my second time trying religious matrimony but I'm not getting married that soon. Not before i get the prenup and a solid job.
Originally Posted by Nurse View Post
one thing to consider with all of this is mindfulness of other people's culture, i believe that someone from denmark will not really understand something like that because of the culture difference even if you do mean well sometimes its a little difficult for people from wildly different places to understand things like this. though if you are interested in them thats great! i suggest not talking about marriage so soon like you said, if this is a commitment you're willing to take long term and you're confident that she is as on board as you are with this relationship maybe you can bring it up in 6 months or so and even then just to have a conversation about it i would not make sudden changes so quickly. also sorry if i said something that might come off as offensive i promise i mean well i am not very good at talking about subjects like this

Is it really that huge of a difference? I'm sure there are a few details that you are missing on this. I'm not sure i understood correctly.