So, I used to be able to see where people were in game while on the forum. It would be in their name thing where belt and post count is. It said something like, "Currently in Game: wushu2" or something similar. Did this break and die?

They started having problems with it.

It would stay on one server, and wouldn't change. It used to work just fine, but then it broke. I assume they removed it.

Hm, I noticed that. Just didn't know why they removed it. Maybe they'll try to fix it sometime? I wonder what made it break.

I was going to tell you that you could always use the online server list, but it isn't working either.
http://forum.toribash.com/tori_roomlist.php

Am I behind, or has this been recently broken too?

In a way, I'm glad it's gone. You at least got a bit more privacy lol.

But, what's so hard about going in-game and doing "/rf /sa" oldschool wise?

./rf ./sa is broke in newer versions

also pretty sure the refresh button on the MP interface is also broken.

Buddylist also never updates room name.

So, in general, everything is broke in terms of finding players in game easily.