The two toribash version are not allowing me to connect to mp.
It will open and show the rooms all right, but when I select a room and click connect it doesn't work.

What's the specific error message it says on the screen when you try to connect?

Its shows two tori's then it say's not connected, meanwhile my internet is working well.

No, because other people play too BlackMambo.

I'm actually on right now.

Try an older client. I've got an archive of some older clients here:
http://toribash.jarmund.net/clients/