In a different thread, I called somebody a bitch and got the post deleted. BUT, the thread that I read about the swearing rule said the if it was just isolated like that, it was fine. It wasn't like I totally flamed the guy, but i still got it deleted. So what is the rule on this?

Also, a comment was made (I believe by Chac) that it was ironic because I was posting in a thread about "The rules you agreed to when you signed up." But I signed up a couple years ago and was that even a rule then? It was never a rule until recently was it?