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Allowing people to use whatever bathrooms/accommodation/whatever they like according to "what the identify as" which can be lied about can lead to issues. Here are 2 famous recent examples http://metro.co.uk/2017/02/05/transg...mates-6429321/ and http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-39337805 - I know criminals and the military are 2 very different sets of people, but the point is that problems would very well be able to arise.



Although its obviously unprovable whether they lied it raises questions as to whether people should be allowed to effectively choose what sex of prison they want to be allocated to. In a similar line of thought, being able to choose what bathrooms you use could be an issue as has been shown multiple times in cases such as this https://www.nytimes.com/2016/07/15/u...voyeurism.html .


On the topic of physical tests, transgender men choosing what tests they want isnt a problem since they have the phsyical attributes and hormones of females since that is their biological sex. The issue is with transgender women, who have the physical attributes of men being tested by easier standards than they should be.
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It's a tough subject, but those cases are definitely in the minority. A homosexual could also have "inappropriate behavior" with a member of the same gender, and that to me is no different than a trans person having intimate relations with a member of their new gender. By separating males and females you can't prevent these sexual acts taking place if you allow homosexuals in, and that's sort of the same logic when you let a transgender person in to the military.

If you allow one, then you should allow the other. People who argue that being transgender is a mental illness are thinking that it is unnatural and out of the ordinary, but so is homosexuality.
Also, it might be expensive to accommodate for transsexuals as opposed to homosexuals, as trans require extra measures in place, but I don't think that money is something to be niggardly over when people's rights are concerned.
Last edited by Wicked; Sep 11, 2017 at 11:01 AM.
There is no reason why transgender people can't be given a place in the army, so that comparison is dumb. Colourblind people maybe can't fly planes because they can't see the bright lights on aerial towers or something. The only arguments people make against transgender people in the army are fiscal ones, like "Wehhh, it'll cost too much money." Or "Wehhh, we'll have to make some slight changes in how we do things."

Arguments about the mental health/stability of transgender people I don't consider legitimate, BTW, for the reason I gave in another post above concerning homosexuals.
Last edited by Wicked; Sep 13, 2017 at 10:12 AM.
Originally Posted by Wicked View Post
There is no reason why transgender people can't be given a place in the army, so that comparison is dumb. Colourblind people maybe can't fly planes because they can't see the bright lights on aerial towers or something. The only arguments people make against transgender people in the army are fiscal ones, like "Wehhh, it'll cost too much money." Or "Wehhh, we'll have to make some slight changes in how we do things."

Arguments about the mental health/stability of transgender people I don't consider legitimate, BTW, for the reason I gave in another post above concerning homosexuals.

And what is that reason? 'Well, we let homos in, so what's difference''? Being homosexuality and trans are two very different things and they have differing effects on your biology and mental health.

Homosexuality is just people deciding who to stick their dick into (/open pussy for). Trans is a serious form of body dysmorphia - A legitimate condition.

You shouldn't regard them as two sides of the same coin, they're different beasts.

In case there's confusion, my position on this is that a decent amount of trans people aren't stable, so, like everyone else who wants to join the military, they should pass the psych exam. Also, they should be at a stage in their transition where they don't require many medicines or supplements, again, like every other applicant.
Last edited by Ele; Sep 14, 2017 at 02:09 AM.
Why do you regard "a decent amount of trans" as mentally unstable? Seems like a massive sweeping statement based upon no evidence but stinking of your own personal bias.

Trans people experience more depression, body issues and suicide because of how they are mistreated. Placing tight regulations on them joining the army is hardly going to help this.
Last edited by Wicked; Sep 14, 2017 at 02:16 AM.
Originally Posted by Wicked View Post
Why do you regard "a decent amount of trans" as mentally unstable? Seems like a massive sweeping statement based upon no evidence but stinking of your own personal bias.

Christ, dude. You haven't read this thread have you? You at least certainly haven't read my exchange with Bodhisattva. You should read that.

Originally Posted by Wicked View Post
Trans people experience more depression, body issues and suicide because of how they are mistreated. Placing tight regulations on them joining the army is hardly going to help this.

1. Google 'body dysmorphia' and understand that isn't just caused by 'oppression' and is a genuine psychological disorder
2. WHERE DID I SAY THAT WE SHOULD PLACE TIGHT REGULATIONS ON THEM?

Answer: I didn't. I never said that. I've said 3 times (!) in this thread (because I KNEW people wouldn't read and just react emotionally), that we shouldn't place anymore restrictions on them than we already place on everyone else. We already have psych exams people must pass before they're accepted into most modern militaries. These exams weed out psychologically unstable people. There is no need for any additional restrictions, because the necessary restrictions are already in place.

I cannot be more clear. Do you understand now?
Last edited by Ele; Sep 14, 2017 at 05:13 AM.
Originally Posted by Oracle View Post
There are several problems with these arguments.

First, "identifying" as transgender does not make you transgender under the law. You have to be confirmed by a medical professional to identify as transgender, and not just faking it. So the bar to become transgender is stacked against you if you're trying to fake the classification, since a respectable medical professional will shut down your request to be classified as transgender. To classify somebody as transgender willingly with knowledge that they are not transgender is illegal, unethical, grounds to lose your license to practice, and leaves you subject to prosecution.

And how does the medical professional tell the difference between the 2? Its from what the person tells him, not from telltale physical signs

Second, to make this clear because it seems you don't understand this, transgender is a term about what gender you identify as, not what your biological sex is, or you sexual orientation. Transgenders may undergo gender reassignment, but the degree of which they undergo the treatment is varied. Not all will change their biological sex in the process, and many will not undergo the treatment at all and just cross dress. Some are gay, some are straight, some are bi. Point is, it's not tied to their perceived gender.

I do understand that. I dont see what part of my post this was supposed to refer to

Third, you see problems with transgender people who are using their reassignment as an excuse to do things with the other sex, I see a much more common problem that arises where transgender people are mistaken for the opposite sex when they're forced to use facilities for their birth sex. When a transgender woman is forced to enter a men's bathroom, or a transgender man is forced to enter a women's bathroom, there is a LOT of confusion that can arise that will result in harassment of the transgender person. Police are more likely to be called if a person who looks like a male enters a women's bathroom, or a person who looks like a female enters a men's bathroom.

If the person has undergone gender reassignment surgery and clearly has features of the other sex then I dont have a problem with it. The problem is when with no proof whaysoever anyone can walk into either sex of bathroom as they please. Not all transgender people have undergone gender reassignment surgery.

Fourth, it doesn't matter if somebody is transgender and commits a crime, even peeping on women or men in the bathroom. Reason being? It's irrelevant that they're transgender, a crime is a crime regardless of your identification. A regular person who cross dresses can accomplish the exact same level of "concealment" that everyone is worried the transgender label will be used for, and it's easier to accomplish since it doesn't require medical confirmation. It literally makes no sense to be afraid of transgenders using their identification as a gender to commit crimes, because gender is irrelevant when a crime is committed. A male peeking on a female in a bathroom stall is the exact same crime if it's a woman peeking, or a trans person peeking, or if it's a man being peeked on. Being trans is not a get out of jail free card. Prohibiting a trans person from using a bathroom they identify with will not stop people who want to commit this crime from committing it, and allowing them to use the bathroom is not a green light for them to commit a crime.

Since Im using my phone I cant verify what I said in my last post but I highly doubt I said that transgender people would be commiting the crime. The point is that anyone can enter either bathroom so if he so wanted a male non-transgender peep could go into the womens bathroom

Finally, why would meeting a lower test standard be a concern? If you're willing to accept a person into the army with lower physical standards to begin with, why is it fine if a woman can only meet the lower standards and still be allowed to serve in the same capacity as a male, yet a transgender woman can't? If that's your concern, then it would make more sense to push for standardized requirements across all genders and either raise the requirements for women to men's, or lower men's to women's.

I dont kmow how the tests work or what doing well or badly in the would result in. But if a transgender woman gets a load of benefits because they did really well for a regular woman or a transgender man has sanctions because they couldnt keep up with the other men that doesnt sit right with me. Theyre there for a reason, and whatever that reason may be its important that people are held to the correct standard

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Originally Posted by Ele View Post
Christ, dude. You haven't read this thread have you? You at least certainly haven't read my exchange with Bodhisattva. You should read that.


1. Google 'body dysmorphia' and understand that isn't just caused by 'oppression' and is a genuine psychological disorder

Please find me evidence that all transgender people suffer from crippling anxiety over small imperfections in their image, and weren't simply unhappy with their gender.

I cannot be more clear. Do you understand now?
No. Because you didn't answer my question at all. Why do you regard "a decent amount of trans" as mentally unstable? Because as we've established, body dysmorphic discorder is an anxiety disorder that can affect anyone of any gender. There is no evidence to suggest that being trans is based on a disorder. It is based on being unhappy with your gender, to suggest that it always has to come with a huge dose of anxiety disorder is really, really silly.

I'm just confused as to why you seem to think that trans and body dysmorphic disorder are the same thing?

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https://www.theguardian.com/global-d...ental-disorder

I'm just being devil's advocate here.
Last edited by Wicked; Sep 14, 2017 at 01:35 PM.
Originally Posted by Wicked View Post
I'm just confused as to why you seem to think that trans and body dysmorphic disorder are the same thing?

big



https://www.theguardian.com/global-d...ental-disorder

I'm just being devil's advocate here.

Before I start, just a bit of discussion etiquette, don't respond to stuff inside quote tags, it's difficult to quote the things you type when you do that. I'm a wizard tho, so I'll quote it anyways.
Originally Posted by Wicked
Please find me evidence that all transgender people suffer from crippling anxiety over small imperfections in their image, and weren't simply unhappy with their gender.
I'm just confused as to why you seem to think that trans and body dysmorphic disorder are the same thing?

When you look down, as a trans man wanting to be a female, and you see your massive cock and you feel and think to yourself 'this is not a part of my body', that is body dysmorphia.. That said, the severity of the dysmorphia does differ from transgenders to transexuals, this an important distinction.
Originally Posted by Wicked
No. Because you didn't answer my question at all. Why do you regard "a decent amount of trans" as mentally unstable?

If you read my posts in this thread, you would've seen the link to the study which showed that over 40% of transgender people try killing themselves before they're 25. I think suicidal tendencies are a good indicator of poor mental health, don't you? I'd also say 40% is a decent amount.
Originally Posted by Wicked
Because as we've established, body dysmorphic discorder is an anxiety disorder that can affect anyone of any gender.

Yes? So? There's many forms of body dysmorphia that affects all sorts of people. Anorexia is one. I never said body dysmorphia was a solely trans phenomenon..

Do I need to continue? Do I need to keep proving that I'm not bigoted and my thoughts are based in reason?

I'm gonna try one last time to lay this out. I'm not against trans in the military. I'm against suicidal people in the military. The psych tests that determine whether or not the military accepts you checks your level of mental health, and if your mental health is poor you will not be accepted, regardless of your identity (doesn't matter if your trans, black, gay or a woman).

Only mentally unstable people don't get in. Mentally stable trans people are A-OK, so long as their medication/supplementation schedule wouldn't be disruptive and appropriate (just like everyone else).

I'm not proposing we treat them any differently at all. That might also be a clue that I'm not bigoted. I'm proposing we treat them exactly the same as we treat everyone else.
Last edited by Ele; Sep 15, 2017 at 03:10 AM.
Originally Posted by Wicked View Post
These are legitimate concerns however simple measures can be put in place to accommodate for transgender people.

A lot of the "fixes" you offered can easily lead to rape, sexual harassment, etc.
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Originally Posted by Wicked View Post
There is no reason why transgender people can't be given a place in the army, so that comparison is dumb. Colourblind people maybe can't fly planes because they can't see the bright lights on aerial towers or something. The only arguments people make against transgender people in the army are fiscal ones, like "Wehhh, it'll cost too much money." Or "Wehhh, we'll have to make some slight changes in how we do things."

The military is a fucking fighting force. We're being trained to eliminate our enemy. Not how to make someone feel comfortable and spend unnecessary money on them because it's "always been a dream of theirs to fight for their country."
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